You wouldn’t guess it from Ben Affleck’s Oscar speech shout-out to wife Jennifer Garner — which sounded like he was laying her off after ten years of hard marital labor — but he and Garner have the kind of gender-role-fluid marriage that makes progressives swoon.
Writing in The End of Men, Hanna Rosin calls such arrangements “seesaw” marriages, in which each partner takes turn playing homemaker and breadwinner, depending on who’s making more money, got better benefits, able to work from home, working on a second degree, etc. In seesaw marriages, no one "has it all at once," as Madeleine Albright recently put it, but everyone gets to do everything. The most famous example currently resides in the White House and, coincidentally, tele-presented Affleck that Oscar!
Via: Ben Affleck Is Leaning Out
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